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immediately after moving into our guest cabin, Sharon began
complaining about the conditions at our home. We only have a
composting outhouse because we have no septic system. There was only
one shower in the larger cabin that Susan and I live in, so they would
have to shower while we were out doing chores. They were, of course,
completely aware of all of our conditions before they moved here.
Sharon quickly began referring to the guest cabin as "unlivable."
This
was the very word used to describe the Pahrump trailer they had left,
yet I still didn't catch on. Susan and I had previously lived in that "guest"
cabin ourselves for about one year. While that cabin is certainly
humble, it has a kitchenette and a separate bedroom. Indeed, when
Susan and I lived in that "unlivable" cabin, it didn't have the
bedroom that it now has. We added that later. So, the cabin is far
larger now than when we lived in it. We have fond memories of living
there and while we consider it to be rustic, it's certainly warm and
cozy. At
our premises, we paid for all the utilities, and we did not charge
them any rent at all. Both cabins have woodstoves and because we live
in the forest, there is plenty of firewood on hand. We provided a
telephone. Because we raise animals, we keep a well stocked freezer.
We also have plenty of stored food. Our water is a gravity fed spring
and it is pure spring water. There
really was no overhead for them at all. When Chris and Sharon moved
in, they brought with them a cash stash of about $14,000.
They had the Ford Explorer which was a much newer vehicle than
ours. Because they had many possessions, including an enormous large
screen TV, many of their belongings were stored in a warehouse about
15 miles away that the ministry rented where we kept our inventory.
This was the building where we did our canning and the envelope
stuffing crew worked. We
decided to take it slowly and see how well they worked out in their
efforts to help us in our existing print and broadcast activities.
While Chris took to the activities, Sharon did not. She couldn't find
anything to do. Because she had written a book (a fictional novel) and
many television scripts, we offered her a computer to work on writing
for the newspaper. She didn't want to do that. Sensing that perhaps
the computer was intimidating to her, I repeatedly suggested she could
write a column for the paper in longhand and we could put it in the
computer for her. She never responded. We
then suggested she might help in posting orders with Susan. She wasn't
interested. We suggested if she didn't like office work or shipping of
product, perhaps she could feed and water the animals, or work in the
garden. Not interested. We tried to get her to help with the "punch
and bind machine." This little device punches holes in paper and
inserts a spiral for books we distribute. She tried working with this
machine on one occasion, but quickly became frustrated. Although it's
incredibly simple, Sharon refused to handle any of the bindery chores
unless Chris assisted her. The
only thing Sharon ever indicated any interest in was handling the
ministry money. She enthusiastically said she could handle the funds
that came in. Due to the fact that she had never demonstrated any
abilities of any kind, and sensing potential trouble in this area, I
continued the tight hold on the financial aspects of the Christian
Media ministry. As the situation deteriorated with Sharon, months went
by with her in a terribly foul, depressed mood that infected everyone. A
trip to town is a 3 hour round trip excursion, so we always try to
make the best of it. This means when Susan or I went into town, we
always take orders to the post office and always bring back supplies.
Almost daily, Susan would carry 4, 5, or 6 boxes of orders (anywhere
from 25-50 orders) from the house to the truck to drive them in to the
post office. Sharon would stand by watching, as Susan (or I)
went back and forth making multiple trips to carry things out the 100
feet from our cabin/office to the truck. The process repeated itself
whenever we came back with goods from town. With
the exception of doing laundry, her resistance to being involved in
any productive activity continued. When
Chris was working on something, Sharon would sit with him while he
worked - or she would do the Blodgetts' laundry or just watch
television in the cabin. Meanwhile, Susan ran the order processing and
shipping, posted all the orders, fed and watered the cows and
chickens, brought in firewood, did the cooking, and somehow managed to
maintain our little household. I wrote the books, produced and aired
my daily broadcast, managed the printing and bulk mailing, ran the
finances, administered the network, and did seemingly a hundred other
things. Chris
ran the technical end of the Shortwave broadcasts, produced and aired
his own daily program, and maintained the studio. In spite of the fact
that when they had first visited, the Blodgetts had represented Sharon
as a `can-do' type of person with great physical attributes (she was
said to hold a black belt in Karate in addition to her former
policewoman duties) Sharon just sat around all day and refused to
work. During most of the period the Blodgetts were around, we had a
huge backlog of orders and people would call and pressure Susan to get
their order out as soon as possible. She was completely overwhelmed
and broke down in tears many times due to the callous treatment she
received from angry and impatient people. This made Sharon's inactivity
all the more egregious. In
an effort to try to allow me the time to write our two
periodicals, Susan carried the lion's share of the
workload here. To free me up to do the database work and the
bulk mailings, Susan answered the phones, posted all
the orders, and handled the inevitable complaints. To allow me
the time to broadcast every night, Susan did every other
task that came along. Our days are routinely 12-14 hours here at Christian
Media, and occasionally they're even longer. Although the
Blodgetts supposedly came to help us, Sharon wasn't remotely
interested in doing anything at all - except to be near Chris. As
soon as they moved in, I suggested to Chris that he could do a weekly
preaching program and that we would sponsor it. Christian Media
bought a weekly shortwave hour on Monday nights and he began doing his
program. Chris told me he would love to go out on a speaking tour and
I also agreed that Christian Media could sponsor that tour. We
quickly produced a Western regional speaking tour of 7 cities for
November 1999. The next year, we produced a national tour of 10
cities. Chris had pleaded with me that he had to get Sharon back to
Connecticut, because Sharon needed to see her family, so we
wrapped the tour around that. Christian
Media paid for all travel, all sleeping arrangements, the hotel
banquet rooms, printing, graphics, promotional flyers, and bulk mail.
In short, everything. There is quite a bit of time and expense
involved, but because Chris was willing I thought this would be a good
way to introduce him to our supporters and get our newspapers in more
people's hands around the nation. Because
of limited resources, I put my own planned national tour for the year
2000 on hold and instead sent Chris out. Every year I had toured and
this was an important part of our ministry - both ministerially as
the people wanted to see me, and financially as well. Each of my
previous tours had helped the ministry to catch up financially during
slow revenue periods. The
time it took for me to plan the tour, and execute a promotional
campaign to support it took me further away from my daily duties of
writing for the paper. The
process of working database management to find which cities to mail
postcards or flyers to takes time. This is called "data-mining" and it's
a very specialized skill. I wrote and laid out the graphics for Chris'
tour mailers. I worked the Christian Media mailing lists and
ran the bulk mailing software to run off the laser bulk labels. I had
the mailers printed, folded, and stuffed in envelopes. We sent out
bundles to ministry supporters as well. We recorded regular
announcements on the radio to push the Blodgett tour. I
produced the tour in cities where I had spoken during my previous
tours. Because no-one knew him at that time and his radio show was
just beginning and had not yet developed a following, I introduced and
endorsed Chris to each of the key people in those towns. During
that tour, they went through Colorado. Friends and long-time
supporters of our ministry in Colorado said they would be delighted to
let Chris and Sharon stay in their house. Interestingly enough, our
Colorado friends said they were scheduled to be on the road during the
tour and were going to be in Oregon the very night that Chris and
Sharon were in their home. In an ironic episode of timing, this couple
ended up staying in the guest cabin that Chris and Sharon lived in on the
very same night that Chris and Sharon were staying in their house
in Colorado! This proved to be very significant when information
concerning the Blodgetts treachery emerged much later. The
first regional tour produced modest results and the turnout was small
in each of the cities. One couple that had been long time supporters
of Christian Media gave us a substantial gift that balanced out
what would have been a significant financial loss. When Chris and
Sharon returned, I felt that the Lord would have us give them a good
portion of that gift as a way of showing our appreciation. They seemed
genuinely grateful at the time. The
national tour lost a considerable amount of money. The Blodgetts told
us that in several cities, there were less than 10 people. Because we
run a very lean and modest ministry, Christian Media cannot
sustain losses for very long, so I was concerned. Later, we were told
by others that the Blodgetts took in plenty of gifts and tape and book
monies in their city. Our
radio programs continued. At the end of the year, Chris, myself, and
many guests did the "Millennial Marathon" broadcast (on Y2K night at
the end of 1999) at Truth Radio. Shortly
after the first of the year, I dropped off of Truth Radio and
decided to form the Christian Media Network. Even though Sharon
had become an emotional burden due to her continual depression,
I was very glad to have Chris with us then, for we had to put together
the studio components to bring our technology up to par. We already
had many of the pieces of equipment that we needed, but we bought a
sound board and another sound computer. Chris wired it all up within a
couple of weeks. Meanwhile,
Sharon's depressive mood deteriorated. The Blodgetts showered in our
house when we were in the studio or doing outside tasks. Sharon
incessantly complained about sharing our shower so we finally decided
to build a bathroom and install a bathtub in the guest cabin in the
hopes it would alleviate her obvious gloom. I paid for every
penny of the project. At one point, Chris and Sharon selected
and purchased a bathtub, but I reimbursed him. This entire project was
definitely a financial drain, but we felt it might help Sharon's
attitude which frequently rubbed off on Chris. Meanwhile,
the network launched in March of 2000 and 3 out of 4 people at our
premises were very, very busy putting together the schedule, setting
up procedures, finding hosts, and a hundred other daily challenges.
Everyone was working very hard except for Sharon. Her
washing machine failed at this point and that was clearly a crisis of
the first magnitude. Our older machine wasn't up to her standards, so they
removed ours and went out and bought another washer and installed
their own dryer. We were used to drying things on the clothesline, but
oh well - if it kept her from being depressed. The
workload just seemed to increase. Susan, who is a very
small woman of about 100 pounds, was lugging around 75 pound bales of
hay to feed the many animals. I helped whenever I could. Meanwhile
Sharon, who is large and beefy, refused to help. This seemed
extremely unfair as, once again, Sharon was represented as a strong
former policewoman with an extensive martial arts training. Chris
repeatedly bragged on the air about how tough she is.
Susan
and myself both became convinced that Sharon was the laziest woman we'd
ever met. We kept this to ourselves, and I did not press Chris as I
felt it inappropriate to criticize another man's wife.
Friction developed between the women as Sharon actually began to show
disrespect for Susan! Because of the touchy nature of such things, I
urged Susan to just turn the other cheek. I felt it inappropriate to
criticize another man's wife as Chris had eyes and ears and could see
what was going on. It was obvious to us, and I kept hoping against
hope that Chris could see how ludicrous the situation had become.
Basically, there were 4 people in a leaky boat and only 3 were rowing. In
retrospect, I should have seen that something was seriously wrong for
the clues were everywhere. Sharon was represented as a policewoman
who was a martial arts expert that trained other policemen -- yet she
couldn't drive a car! Thus, we couldn't even ask her to go to town to
run errands. On
several occasions, Susan tried being more insistent with Sharon. On
one occasion I remember Susan sat her down to show her how to do data
entry on a computer. We had many names that needed entering and the
process is so simple that we were sure she could get the hang of it.
After all, Sharon had written a book and TV scripts, so surely (we
thought) she'll get the hang of this. When
Susan came back out to the studio to check on Sharon, Chris had
stopped the tape dubbing work he was doing, and was doing the data
entry work for Sharon, while Sharon stood by and
watched. On
another occasion, Susan again pressed Sharon to try doing the "punch
and bind" machine. As I previously noted, this is a machine with a
hand crank that is used to make a spiral bound book. It's about as
simple as using a stapler. Basically, a child can use it. We had many
printed products that needed binding, and the only person that wasn't
working on some other project was Sharon. The same thing
happened. When Susan came back out to the studio, Chris had stopped
what he was doing and he was punching and binding books while Sharon
watched. Bn
yet another occasion, Susan tried one more time. We sell colloidal
silver replacement rods. We buy it in long spools, measure out 6
inches, and cut them with a pair of wire cutters. Susan showed Sharon
how to use a ruler and measure out 6 inches of wire and then snip the
piece off with a standard pair of wire cutters. Once again, when
Sharon couldn't handle that we found Chris stopped his work and was
doing the work for Sharon. We simply gave up after that as we
needed Chris to do audio more than we needed Chris to do mundane tasks
to cover Sharon's laziness. Susan
and I simply resigned ourselves to Sharon's total lack of
cooperation and decided never to bother her again. Sharon eventually
retreated from any contact with us at all. Ultimately, when she wasn't
doing laundry (apparently the only task she felt worthy of her
skills), Sharon just stayed in the cabin each day and watched
television. After
all the hidden manipulations and slanders of the Blodgetts came to
light, we were told a similar story concerning Sharon by Francis
Steffan and his wife Elizabeth. After they moved out of our
premises, Francis was at the Blodgetts' new home to help Chris install
his 8 foot satellite dish. Francis, Chris, and Elizabeth were
struggling to reach around the 8 foot rim of the very large dish and
hold the front "feedhorn" assembly together. The 3 of them were
reaching around this huge dish and extended in an awkward position
when Francis realized he had left the 4 bolts that secure the assembly
in the house. As
Sharon was standing nearby in her usual observation mode, Chris asked
her to get the bolts. She icily stared at him as though to say
"you want me to do that?" When she ignored the
request, Chris asked her again. After more non-compliance, Chris
finally yelled at her and called her a "bitch." She went and got the
bolts. We were told the Blodgetts had a big fight that day. Because
Francis and Liz had gone there to help the Blodgetts out of the
goodness of their hearts, the episode left such a lasting impression,
they both decided that they would never again visit Chris and Sharon
Blodgett at their home. |
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